#deactivation
2 articles on deactivation.
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How Avoidant Attachers Handle Conflict: The Shutdown, the Deflection, and the Exit
How avoidant attachers handle conflict: decode the shutdown, deflection, and exit as deactivating moves, and learn de-escalation that helps them stay.
10 min read - Attachment
Avoidant Deactivation: Triggers, Signs, and What Helps
What triggers deactivation in dismissive- and fearful-avoidant partners: a research-grounded checklist, with what helps once the door has started to close.
10 min read